- Friday, 17 January 2020
Your whole life, you are a patron of kindness and compassion. You are a true warrior, and you are not afraid to defend what you love. This admirable goodness in you makes you believe every person in your life is worth fighting for. But in reality, there are only a few who truly deserve your devotion. You have a heart of gold that’s big enough to fit the whole world. Unfortunately, this heart of yours is too fragile and vulnerable.
This fragility makes it an easy target for the indecent people you let in your life : What you need to do is accept the fact that not everyone in your life has genuine intentions towards you. Some people only want to manipulate and pay deceitful mind games with you. In fact, the ones you love the most might hurt your feelings in the most painful way you have ever experienced. This is one of the hardest truths you need to realize.
Eventually, after many heartbreaks and sleepless nights, you will learn how to protect yourself from toxic people : You will become aware of who is genuine with you, and who is only temporarily using you. The hardships you might experience will help you see that not everyone deserves your kindness. Not everyone is worthy of your respect. Make sure you don’t lose yourself while giving your love away to people who might not deserve it. The best way to do it is by making yourself your top priority. Love yourself first. At the end of the day, we are all alone. Besides, no one knows you better than yourself. That’s why you need to learn how to take care of your own wellbeing. With the same strength you defend what you love, you should guard your own heart.
Become the hero you desperately need. Only this way you will learn how to let go of people who don’t deserve you : Anyone who doesn’t value your authentic nature is not worthy of being a significant part of your life. Once you let go of people who don’t respect you enough to be real with you, you will achieve a higher level of emotional intelligence. Every challenge you go through will bring along a valuable lesson. This will help you realize that your heart is too precious to give it away to undeserving people. You will finally see that just because you love someone, it doesn’t mean they love you back or they feel the same way for you. Stop underestimating yourself. You deserve so much more than what you settle for. Just have a little faith in yourself.
And most importantly, be aware of the people you let in your life and the ones who truly deserve to be a part of it : You are worthy of being loved the way you love. And you will be. The special someone who will love you with the same passion and authenticity is out there. The one who will treat you like the priceless human being you are is coming your way. Unfortunately, you might need to go through several heartbreaks until you meet this someone. But it will all be worth it.